When you know the answer, never ask why again~~this will only show how contradict you are!!Too many couple break up because having different thought...if really a Mars and Venus couple....then let go may be is the most suitable way to solve. Al lot couple has forgotten the main purpose of being together - both party feel they are comfort happy to stay their another. when a force is applied, there will be another opposite force with the same magnitude produce. Only those who follow the water flow are able to survive!!